Are you one of those people who care about the sexual satisfaction and about your partner's satisfaction?  Are you those who are currently frustrated and even depressed about the effect of back pain on your sex live?  Back pain is ruining the sex lives of many people. What can be done to improve the situation?

Talk About It
It is not always easy to talk about sex.  People feel uncomfortable and turn faces red even by just thinking about sex. It is very important that you and your partner find a way, face to face or even if by writing or by phone, to discuss your back pain, and how it affects your sexual relationship. 
 

Back pain
How serious is the pain? How does it hurt? Where does it hurt? What movements or positions affect the pain?

Sex drive
How was your sex drive? Has the back pain diminish the sex drive? If it has, don't just avoid having sex and not explain why. It might cause unnecessary strain in your love life. It is better to admit that it's your problem,and go to your doctors for console. Back pain sometimes will impact your emotions and cause depressed. 

Physical impact
There are limitations on your daily activities if you are living with back pain. Identify what particular physical limitations do you have to work around during sex? With the limitations caused by back pain, discuss what else can you do to feel close to each other.

Practical Changes
Do you have spinal stenosis? Degenerative changes in your spine? A herniated disc? What's causing your pain impacts how your body reacts to different positions. So if you can identify which positions naturally reduce your back pain, you can then adapt your position during sex. Those men suffering from degenerative disc can lie on the back while their partner straddles on top.

Don't have to stay in bed
A rug or on the floor, may be more comfortable for you if you are lying on your back during sex. You should can figure out what's best for you and your partner.

Hot or cold therapy
Take a hot bath in a whirl pool or have a soothing massage, or even just using heat or ice packs on the affected area can all ease away muscle pains prior to sex.

Sex is more than just the sum of the physical steps that lead to the "perfect" experience. Sexual satisfaction depends on several factors besides physical performance. Even a modest change in a medication can make a big difference for your pain.  Factors such as emotional connectedness, attentive listening, saying thank you for the little things, or compliments can all add to sexual satisfaction. And none of those things are limited by the back pain. You can still have a satisfying "sexy" relationship even when living with back pain.